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find a slut The results are inevitable and obvious: Accordingly, promiscuous men have traditionally been regarded as dissolute, dangerous, and dishonorable -- just as they are today.

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I find it quite surprising that divorces are occurring because of this reason. Maybe some of these women could benefit from learning to "taking care of themselves" more instead of forcing sex on their partners or having an ex-marital fling? In any case, I do hope that society's views on the more sexual women change for the better, to see us as just women comfortable in their skin. find a slut

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